Is Your Spouse Still Your Friend? – Relationships.

“It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.”- Friedrich Nietzsche. If you are unhappy in your marriage, search for this truth; Is your spouse still your best friend? Is your spouse still that friend and confidant that you discussed everything with? Are you still talking with yourContinue reading “Is Your Spouse Still Your Friend? – Relationships.”

How To Stay Strong When Mourning A Departed Spouse.- Marriage

“If the people we love are stolen from us, the way to have them live on is to never stop loving them.” —James O’Barr. …but wouldn’t it continue to hurt, if you continued to love, a dear one, you can’t see no more and touch no more? It’s a difficult situation, because your power toContinue reading “How To Stay Strong When Mourning A Departed Spouse.- Marriage”

5 Reasons Marrying Your Opposite Is Not A Mistake.

There are some gains in marrying someone who is your opposite in some ways. So stop searching for someone who is completely like you. It is causing a lot of delay for many people and many have forgotten about marriage completely. Marrying someone with different likes, passions and dreams, makes marriage more exciting and inContinue reading “5 Reasons Marrying Your Opposite Is Not A Mistake.”

Why You Must Guard What You Have Jealously.

Not many people like the good things others have. So when you have something precious, guard it jealously because many are trying unsuccessfully, to get the same thing for themselves. And your close friend may be among those looking for what you have. Guard what you have jealously, stop fault-finding and stop complaining to everybodyContinue reading “Why You Must Guard What You Have Jealously.”

Divorce: I Have Been Married To A Stranger.

Have you ever felt like you have been married to a complete stranger all these years? And that you have had enough and want a divorce? Who hasn’t? Many have been married for years and woke one beautiful morning to see a complete stranger lying in their bed in their home. That same stranger hasContinue reading “Divorce: I Have Been Married To A Stranger.”

Unspoken Words Express Deepest Pains; Pay Attention, Ask Questions.

When an employee turns up for work wearing a long face but still gets the job done, pay attention and ask questions, all is not well; when your spouse comes back home looking depressed but still showers you with love and affection, pay attention to the unexpressed pains and ask questions; your child may showContinue reading “Unspoken Words Express Deepest Pains; Pay Attention, Ask Questions.”

You are right, marriage is not for the wise.

A marriage that still survives the ‘for better, for worse’, oath is the one built on patience, understanding, tolerance and love. For you to earn the trust of your spouse, you must trust without a single doubt; you must go where you don’t like to return with the one you love with a big smile,Continue reading “You are right, marriage is not for the wise.”

How To Put Up With Someone Who Complains Alot

There are people who complain about almost everything, they complain about that, they complain about this, with such people, nothing ever goes according to plan, you can never please them, no matter your best efforts, there must always find fault, they must always find something to complain about. Sorry, if such a person is yourContinue reading “How To Put Up With Someone Who Complains Alot”