“The highest form of love is to be the protector of another person’s solitude.” – Rainer Maria Rilke
Many lovers are guilty of disrespecting their partners’ “me time’ and ‘me space’.
In disrespecting the solitude of those they claim to love, they don’t realize that they are ending their positive contributions.
Negative contributions begin. Negative contributions lead to a decline in the personal growth of partners in a symbiotic relationship.
A partner whose personal goal is continuous growth is going to fight back to protect their solitude.
The resistance may result in either being avoided or an end to the relationship.
True love creates protectors out of real lovers