You go into a relationship seeking acceptance. But you may not be accepted if you are always defensive in your interactions.
Having a defensive behavior in a relationship is like wearing a skin of thorns, no partner would want to embarce you. Only a fool grasps a hot coal.
No one goes into a relationship to seek pains and discomforts. Everyone desires a relationship where personal gains and comforts have an overwhelming presence.
Therefore, as you crave for acceptability in yourself relationship learn also to be warm, accomodating, affable, empathetic and selfless.
In your strength zone, your inner strength takes over to direct you towards everything that works in your favour.
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