“The greatest gifts you can give your children are the roots of responsibility and the wings of independence.”-Denis Waitley.
An irresponsible child is useless to everybody in the society,
and you alone are responsible for it,
so don’t shirk from your responsibility,
say “You are wrong”, when it’s necessary
and be generous with a pat on the back to commend.
Most importantly, guide your children to their wings of independence,
you owe them a responsibility to help them become good citizens
and you owe yourself the responsibility to enjoy your old age in peace.